the runaway: restoring your relationship with God

the runaway: restoring your relationship with God

This is one of the many illustrative stories Jesus told to help us understand that restoring your relationship with God is what matters most. This story of a runaway and rebellious son shows that even though we act really stupidly, thinking and living as if we don’t need him and certainly don’t love him, he never stops loving us and not only waits for our return but runs toward us with arms wide open.

God created us for a relationship with him. As our Creator, he knows what is best for us and offers his unlimited wisdom for living fulfilled and meaningful lives.

But each of us has rejected him in one way or another, whether because we don’t want to give up our control or because we think we know better.

But God has not given up on us!

Jesus Christ was God incarnate, who lived the perfect life we could not live (a sinless life), and took the punishment we deserve (death and separation from God). But death could not hold him. He rose to give us the life we could never have otherwise (restoring our relationship with God), and He alone is the way, the truth and the life – the only way to God.

“There was once a man who had two sons. The younger said to his father, ‘Father, I want right now what’s coming to me.’

“So the father divided the property between them. It wasn’t long before the younger son packed his bags and left for a distant country. There, undisciplined and dissipated, he wasted everything he had. After he had gone through all his money, there was a bad famine all through that country and he began to hurt. He signed on with a citizen there who assigned him to his fields to slop the pigs. He was so hungry he would have eaten the corncobs in the pig slop, but no one would give him any.

“That brought him to his senses. He said, ‘All those farmhands working for my father sit down to three meals a day, and here I am starving to death. I’m going back to my father. I’ll say to him, Father, I’ve sinned against God, I’ve sinned before you; I don’t deserve to be called your son. Take me on as a hired hand.’ He got right up and went home to his father.

“When he was still a long way off, his father saw him. His heart pounding, he ran out, embraced him, and kissed him. The son started his speech: ‘Father, I’ve sinned against God, I’ve sinned before you; I don’t deserve to be called your son ever again.’

“But the father wasn’t listening. He was calling to the servants, ‘Quick. Bring a clean set of clothes and dress him. Put the family ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Then get a grain-fed heifer and roast it. We’re going to feast! We’re going to have a wonderful time! My son is here—given up for dead and now alive! Given up for lost and now found!’ And they began to have a wonderful time.

The Nature of Rebellion

Like the younger son, many of us go through phases where we think we know better than God. We seek independence, make poor choices, and often find ourselves in difficult situations as a result. This rebellion is a universal human experience, and it leads us away from the wisdom and love that God offers, making the journey of restoring your relationship with God all the more vital.

The Consequences of Our Actions

The younger son’s reckless living led to his downfall. This is a metaphor for how our own choices can lead us away from God and into hardship. These consequences are not punishments from God but natural outcomes of living apart from His wisdom. When we hit rock bottom, it’s often a wake-up call to reassess our lives and our relationship with God.

The Turning Point

The younger son’s moment of realization is a critical point in the story. He acknowledges his mistakes and decides to return home. This mirrors moments in our own lives when we realize we’ve strayed from  God. Humility and repentance are key to restoring your relationship with God.

The Father’s Unconditional Love

The father’s reaction to his son’s return is a powerful illustration of God’s unconditional love for us. No matter how far we’ve strayed, God is always ready to welcome us back with open arms. The father’s joy and eagerness to restore his son to his former status symbolize how God forgives and honors us when we return to Him.

The Restoration of Relationship

The father restoring the son to his former status signifies how God not only forgives us but also restores us to a place of honor and love. The clean clothes, the ring, and the feast all have deeper meanings, representing purity, belonging, and celebration. This restoration is a beautiful picture of God’s grace and mercy, highlighting the process of restoring your relationship to God.

The Broader Message

This story is a microcosm of the larger narrative of God’s redemptive plan for humanity. Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection were all about restoring our relationship with God. This parable encapsulates the essence of the Gospel message: God’s relentless love and desire to bring us back into a right relationship with Him.

Personal Application

Reflect on your own life. Consider areas where you might be living independently of God. Take steps toward reconciliation and restoring your relationship with God, knowing that He is eager to welcome you back. No matter where you are or what you’ve done, God’s love is constant and unwavering.

Conclusion: A Call to Action

The story of the Prodigal Son is a powerful reminder of God’s unconditional love and desire for a restored relationship with us. I encourage you to read the full story in Luke 15:11-24 and explore more of Jesus’ teachings. May you find the courage to return to God and experience the fullness of His love and grace.

You can find this recorded in the New Testament, in Luke’s Gospel, chapter 15, verses 11-24, The Message. I hope and pray that you will find out what I mean by “after brokenness.

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